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The Charlatan, Carleton's Independent Student Newspaper - Oct 6, 2007
Fraternities focus on schoolwork and philanthropy too
By MARGARET CAPPA
Drinking, beer and keggers. These words make up the stereotype Carleton’s
fraternity members say they want to break. Nick Bright, president of the
Sigma Pi fraternity, says he dislikes when people prejudge him based on
his fraternity involvement.
“As a president that works towards professionalism, when you hear
someone say, ‘Oh, you’re one of those guys,’ it’s
frustrating and ridiculous. But, it’s one of those things you become
used to,” he says. Stereotypes stem from many sources but many “frat
guys,” as they are often called, say they think Hollywood movies
are the main culprit. Tony Phillips, senior dean at the Acacia fraternity,
says that he thought fraternities were “no good” at first.
“I saw Hollywood movies, like Animal House, and saw fraternities
in a bad way,” he says. The negative image portrayed in this movie
was one of the reasons he did not join a fraternity until later during
his undergraduate years, he adds.
Fraternity members interviewed say they do not deny that they drink and
party, but they maintain it is done in a responsible manner. They say
they party the same way any other university student does.
“We party and we drink, not because we’re in a fraternity,
but because we are in university,” says Carlos Chacon, a founding
father of Carleton’s Kappa Sigma chapter. “I think I break
a lot more stereotypes than I fit,” says Phillips. “I drink,
yes, but responsibly.” He adds that Acacia is strict with underage
drinking and has a risk manager present at all house events, who cuts
people off when they have had too much to drink.
Bright says throwing keggers in the Sigma Pi house is a great act of
disrespect to their fraternity. He says that Sigma Pi has been around
for 110 years and breaking that tradition shows a lack of appreciation
for what they have built up.
So if these guys did not join a fraternity to drink and party, why did
they join? Some fraternity members say they joined for the sense of camaraderie,
much like athletes feel on a sports team.
“I had played sports all my life and when I came to Carleton I
found I was losing that sense of brotherhood. That’s why I wanted
to join [a fraternity],” says Chacon. Other young men are simply
looking for a place to belong, make lifelong friends and network, says
Bright.
“One reason I joined was to get to know people — to network
— and to help me with future jobs. Once you’ve graduated [there
are] 80,000 alumni you have [can contact]. Almost every job I’ve
had has been through a brother,” he says.
Fraternity members, called “brothers,” say they see many
rewarding outcomes that come with brotherhood. Phillips says his brotherhood
is always there when he needs help “Brotherhood is calling them
in a time of need and knowing they’ll be there. That’s what
a brother does,” he says
Sigma Pi, Acacia and Kappa Sigma all require that members maintain a
certain grade point average to remain in the fraternity. They also have
programs and systems in place to help their brothers succeed academically.
Kappa Sigma has a room in their fraternity house that is quiet 24 hours
a day for study. “I’ve helped my brothers countless times
with schoolwork,” says Chacon.
Bright, from Sigma Pi, explains that when anyone in their brotherhood
is struggling academically they can immediately see a scholarship advisor
or past alumni who had the same major.
Besides academics, philanthropy is a main pillar for these fraternities.
The Carleton chapter of Kappa Sigma is ranked among the top three North
American Kappa Sigma fraternities for community involvement even though
it has only been an established chapter since March 17, 2007, says Chacon.
Kappa Sigma’s official adopted charity is the Childhood Cancer Foundation
Candlelighters Canada.
One of the groups Sigma Pi raises money for is the SAM Spady Foundation.
Samantha Spady was a 19-year-old student at Colorado State University
who died of alcohol poisoning in 2004. Sigma Pi adopted this foundation
to demonstrate the extreme importance of drinking in moderation, says
Bright.
To help break stereotypes, fraternities and sororities at Carleton have
recently come together to form the Greek Council. They say they hope this
will establish them as recognized clubs on campus. Phillips, who is also
council president, says the body governs and provides a framework for
Carleton’s Greek community. Most importantly, “it will show
Carleton campus we break those stereotypes,” said Phillips.
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